We make relationships to enjoy life. Even it
perhaps a lot of sacrifices to keep a
relationship and to make it work, many of us
prefer to make these sacrifices just to have near
the person we love and like to spend time with.
Sometimes it happens that a relationship ends
even that there is still love between the
partners. This happens when one of the partners
makes some regular mistakes and has a bad
behavior towards the other. But usually the one
who is guilty for ending the relationship are men
who figures out too late how much it cares about
the other and wants to change only after lose her.
There is nothing worst that being dumped by the
one you love and believed was "the one". Trying
to get a woman back in to your life is difficult.
If you lost your true love because of you and
really want to get her back, don't desperate.
Your situation is not necessarily hopeless.
At some point in life, we all lose something that
we really wish we held on to - in this case, you
lost your love and you need to get your ex back.
Getting back together with your lost love is not
about “getting” them back or even relationship
repair. It's about wining them back. Winning them
back implies a few important things semantically.
It implies effort from your part.
First off all call her and tell her that you
really want to see her. If she wants to take
lunch with you make it so your ex notice that you
are changed, that you thought about why did she
leave you and she had right because there are
many reasons why she left. Apologize sincerely.
If she doesn't want to talk to you by not picking
up the phone when you call her, just surprise her
by waiting in front of the office where she works
and offer to walk her home when her program in
over. But before assure that she is not having a
boyfriend yet, because it might happen that
someone else is waiting for her so your chance is
ruined.
Act like you just starting dating, make her feel
special. Be honest, and tell her that you still
love her. Use the past to your advantage and let
her know that anyone deserves a second chance,
that things will be different now. Do not stalk
her; she might think that you are very desperate.
Just tell her that you are ready to make your
relationship a priority in your life.
If you can get a date with her, be positive,
laugh and smile. Make her feel good. Subtly touch
her when she's talking. You must raise the level
of attraction between the two of you, if she
still loves you; you know that she has a weakness
towards you.
If she didn't fall into your arms after your date
don’t give up. Call her often and just tell her
how you feel. Also you can make something special
for her, like sending flowers and buy her gifts.
Don't forget about anniversary and birthday.
E-mail her and let her know that you are
available any time if she wants to have a date
with you. Also assure her that you don't frequent
another girls and she is the most important for
you.
Be yourself, show her that you don't play games
and your intentions are very serious. Also, don't
be jealous if she had a date with another guy if
she is now ready to get back with you and
renounce to the other guy.
With this ways, a little luck and your personal
charm you can get your girlfriend back faster
than you think.
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