Dating ideas for the clueless

First dates never cease to be the one of the most thrilling events in one's life. However, dating can become boring if one allows it to be. Here are a few dating ideas that will surely make dating like a shiny new pair of shoes.

1. Island Picnic

If you have the moolah, you can always get travel arrangements and head to a deserted island. A simple picnic on a not-so simple island will give your dating life that kick you have always been waiting for. This will be very much appreciated by married couples as well.

2. Food Tripping Date

You don't have to spend so much if you will be only going to fast food chains. But it is a lot more fun to go restaurant-hopping and sampling each restaurant's specialties. Don't forget to skip some heavy snacks before doing this kind of date.

3. Wine Sampling

This could be more enjoyable if you are in a European country where all sorts of wines abound. However, many private wineries are springing up all over the place. Do your homework and see if you can find a local winery close to your location. Just make sure that you are not alcohol-intolerant to enjoy this dating idea.

4. Learn Something New

Learning a new skill could be handy. Learning a new skill with someone else is a surefire way to conjure an exciting mood during the date. Think Demi Moore and Patrick Swayze, except neither of you is a ghost, of course!

5. Window Shopping

Who says only women could enjoy this kind of date? Even if it is not a first date, as long as the guy also gets to go to the stores he likes visiting, it could be one fun time for the both of you. Also, it can make you both learn each others preferences when it comes to material things. Hint: gift hunches.

6. Truth or Dare Date

Pick a place to go to. Then while heading to that area, you can have fun learning about each other's secrets while playing truth or dare.

7. Sports Date

Go hiking, golfing, mountain-climbing or just about anything that makes you both tick. This is one of those feel-good date ideas since sports induce the production of that body chemical that makes you feel good. Sweet!

With those ideas, you will never run out of new and enthralling activities to do. Just be creative.

Men- do you attract women

For many men, attracting women looks very difficult. For few men, it is very simple. The women get attracted to them automatically. There is some magnetism in them or so it seems. It is their personality, their confidence and their talking style that attracts women of a certain type to such men. Now we are talking sense, because to ask the question to a man - Do you attract women? Sounds foolish to some extent. Every man is different and so is every woman. The attraction can never be universal. Let us discuss this further.

You may be an introvert person - More of a thinker and an intellectual. You will find it difficult to attract outgoing and extrovert women. It is said that opposites attract, but that attraction will not last long. When your beloved wants to go for hiking, you would like to go for a poetry recital session. So this attraction may occur at times, but will not last. Similarly, if you are a extrovert man, masculine and in love with adventures and risks, you can not attract women of opposite nature. You will attract women who find lot common between them and you.

It is not difficult to attract women, because they are looking for good partners. The problem arises when we try to attract women who have nothing in common with us. These women ill not are able to understand us and communicate with us. How can you talk of tennis with a woman who loves only reading Shakespeare? The solution lies in first looking for women with common nature and common goals. Once you find some of them, talk to them normally and tell them about your liking for them. Success generally comes with simple approach.

Make your move with women on an up note

You are on a date with a woman and everything is going well. Good conversation, your making her laugh and keeping the conversation on her. Now the date is ending and the last three minutes there has been nothing except stone cold silence. So you figure this will be a good time to make your move since everything was clicking less than five minutes ago. Wrong! Wrong! Wrong! When dealing with women always make your move or escalate the intensity on an up note. In addition you want to leave on an up note as well. Perhaps for some men this advice may sound obvious.

Yet some men do not realize how big a difference this will make with your success with women. When a woman is having a good time with a man she will find it easier and more exciting for her to escalate on increase the intensity with him because she is having fun and it will seem natural, if she even recognizes it at all.

However, when you wait for the fun to end and then make your move it's too late... In a woman's mind after the fun(up) time is done your back at square one, suddenly your jumping all the way too square three or four and she has no idea where it is coming from. In her mind it would be the same as if you had just met and decided to put your tongue down her throat, maybe she wanted you to 1 out of a 100 times but more than likely she is going to respond negatively. I know that it shouldn't matter when you make your move on a woman, but it does so the next time you find yourself on a downturn instead of making your move then to escalate (way to late) look to leave on an up note and save the escalation for next time, you will find it to be much easier by then.